Save a Life, LOOK TWICE (5/1/15 Post)
Look twice, is not just a saying the motorcycle groups have come up with in order to have a cute motto. It is for a reason. My nephew was killed this week in a motorcycle accident. He was only 19 years old. He was cautious, he wore a helmet, but when a car traveled directly into his path while making a left turn, no amount of cautiousness could protect him from avoiding the vehicle.
"It is a curious thing, the death of a loved one. We all know that our time in this world is limited, and that eventually all of us will end up underneath some sheet, never to wake up. And yet it is always a surprise when it happens to someone we know. It is like walking up the stairs to your bedroom in the dark, and thinking there is one more stair than there is. Your foot falls down, through the air, and there is a sickly moment of dark surprise as you try and readjust the way you thought of things.”
― Lemony Snicket, Horseradish
Please be careful out there on the roads and LOOK TWICE!
Look twice, is not just a saying the motorcycle groups have come up with in order to have a cute motto. It is for a reason. My nephew was killed this week in a motorcycle accident. He was only 19 years old. He was cautious, he wore a helmet, but when a car traveled directly into his path while making a left turn, no amount of cautiousness could protect him from avoiding the vehicle.
"It is a curious thing, the death of a loved one. We all know that our time in this world is limited, and that eventually all of us will end up underneath some sheet, never to wake up. And yet it is always a surprise when it happens to someone we know. It is like walking up the stairs to your bedroom in the dark, and thinking there is one more stair than there is. Your foot falls down, through the air, and there is a sickly moment of dark surprise as you try and readjust the way you thought of things.”
― Lemony Snicket, Horseradish
Please be careful out there on the roads and LOOK TWICE!
Book Information and Other Posts
I received this letter from my husband's 95 year old uncle this week and I wanted to share it with my website viewers. Paul Larsen had a PhD in education and was the dean of a college in North Dakota for many years before retiring. I sent him a copy of my memoir and was touched by his response. I wanted to thank him publicly for his kind words.
9/16/2014
Life is Stranger than Fiction
I am reading a book for my book club by Liane Moriarty called "Big Little Lies." It is laugh-out-loud funny and extremely insightful. I will not give away specifics, but the author nails the ex-husband, ex-wife, new-wife triangle so well that I wondered if she had been through a similar scenario in her own life. I felt at times that she was writing about my own life. Then there is the abusive relationship. Liane Moriarty is dead on with the description of this couple, the dynamic surrounding the abuse and how there is a trickle down effect to others.
If you are looking for that funny, dramatic, "wow I can see myself in that person" sort of book, read "Big Little Lies." I don't think you will be disappointed.
Life is Stranger than Fiction
I am reading a book for my book club by Liane Moriarty called "Big Little Lies." It is laugh-out-loud funny and extremely insightful. I will not give away specifics, but the author nails the ex-husband, ex-wife, new-wife triangle so well that I wondered if she had been through a similar scenario in her own life. I felt at times that she was writing about my own life. Then there is the abusive relationship. Liane Moriarty is dead on with the description of this couple, the dynamic surrounding the abuse and how there is a trickle down effect to others.
If you are looking for that funny, dramatic, "wow I can see myself in that person" sort of book, read "Big Little Lies." I don't think you will be disappointed.
“If you don't have time to read, you don't have the time (or the tools) to write. Simple as that.”
― Stephen King
One of my favorite activities I participate in every month is book club. I love getting together with the women in my group, talking about the book we read, discussing a new book, catching up on "Downton Abbey" gossip, eating good food and having a glass of wine or two. I find it socially and mentally stimulating. I look forward to it every month.
We often read things that we would normally never pick up. That's the beauty of a book club. It allows you to step out of your typical reading genre and try new and adventurous ones. The best part is if you don't like the book you just read, there will be another one to read next month.
― Stephen King
One of my favorite activities I participate in every month is book club. I love getting together with the women in my group, talking about the book we read, discussing a new book, catching up on "Downton Abbey" gossip, eating good food and having a glass of wine or two. I find it socially and mentally stimulating. I look forward to it every month.
We often read things that we would normally never pick up. That's the beauty of a book club. It allows you to step out of your typical reading genre and try new and adventurous ones. The best part is if you don't like the book you just read, there will be another one to read next month.
I finished reading this remarkable book. My favorite public praise for the writing was by JOHNS HOPKINS MAGAZINE: "Mahoney drinks in landscapes and people and turns them into page-turning meditations on the self and herself. . . . The resulting book is a compassionate realization that seeing isn't the only path to knowing. . . . Mahoney tries to understand sightless reality, and she does it with such blunt tenderness that it lends her writing a shambolic glee. Though she alludes to secondary sources—philosophical considerations of blindness, medical accounts of sight being restored to blind patients—it's her experiences that make Benefit so thoughtful."
I found her book to be inspiring in many ways. It opened my eyes to how much we miss every day by seeing instead of experiencing. She wrote, "Sight is a slick and overbearing autocrat, trumpeting its prodigal knowledge and perceptions so forcefully that it drowns out the other, subtler senses. We go through our day semi-oblivious to a whole range of sensory information because we are distracted and enslaved by our eyes. Taste, touch, smell, and hearing can hardly get a word in edgewise to the brain. Those of us who have sight do not realize that our experience of life and the world is overpowered by our vision. In this sense, we too are handicapped. . . I saw that I had been missing a great deal of what was happening in my daily life, and I realized that it was not the blind person's deficiency that was drawing me into this subject but the revelation of my own."
During and after reading this book I found myself sitting quietly with my eyes closed, trying to use my other senses. It is a wonderful way to draw yourself into mindfulness, being present in the moment. Read the book for yourself and discover Rosemary Mahoney's wonderful journey.
To find out more about Rosemary visit her site:
www.rosemarymahoney.net/
I found her book to be inspiring in many ways. It opened my eyes to how much we miss every day by seeing instead of experiencing. She wrote, "Sight is a slick and overbearing autocrat, trumpeting its prodigal knowledge and perceptions so forcefully that it drowns out the other, subtler senses. We go through our day semi-oblivious to a whole range of sensory information because we are distracted and enslaved by our eyes. Taste, touch, smell, and hearing can hardly get a word in edgewise to the brain. Those of us who have sight do not realize that our experience of life and the world is overpowered by our vision. In this sense, we too are handicapped. . . I saw that I had been missing a great deal of what was happening in my daily life, and I realized that it was not the blind person's deficiency that was drawing me into this subject but the revelation of my own."
During and after reading this book I found myself sitting quietly with my eyes closed, trying to use my other senses. It is a wonderful way to draw yourself into mindfulness, being present in the moment. Read the book for yourself and discover Rosemary Mahoney's wonderful journey.
To find out more about Rosemary visit her site:
www.rosemarymahoney.net/
First Official Review of Cutting the Soul
***** Powerful and Emotional, February 8, 2015
This review is from: Cutting the Soul: A journey into the mental illness of a teenager through the eyes of his mother (Paperback)
Cutting the Soul by Theresa Larsen is a powerful and emotional memoir of her son's mental illness and her struggles to cope with keeping him safe and well.
The book is an enlightening read for anyone not familiar with self-harming (cutting) and psychosis along with the treatment options available for each. Ultimately, a mixture of parental love and years of treatment helped this young man to cope with his disorder. At times the book was graphic in nature, but only to bring home a point - mental illness is a harsh and unrelenting malady and often takes years to get under control with medication, counseling and a great deal of family support. The message here is to never give up and to remain hopeful even in the darkest moments. Ms. Larsen has shown that there can be a good outcome to years of treatment.
I applaud the author for bringing her story of a mothers' love in dealing with the issues of a mentally ill child to the public.
Thank you to S.A. Moteni for an awesome review. To check out S.A. Moteni's site and books go to
http://samolteni.blogspot.com/
***** Powerful and Emotional, February 8, 2015
This review is from: Cutting the Soul: A journey into the mental illness of a teenager through the eyes of his mother (Paperback)
Cutting the Soul by Theresa Larsen is a powerful and emotional memoir of her son's mental illness and her struggles to cope with keeping him safe and well.
The book is an enlightening read for anyone not familiar with self-harming (cutting) and psychosis along with the treatment options available for each. Ultimately, a mixture of parental love and years of treatment helped this young man to cope with his disorder. At times the book was graphic in nature, but only to bring home a point - mental illness is a harsh and unrelenting malady and often takes years to get under control with medication, counseling and a great deal of family support. The message here is to never give up and to remain hopeful even in the darkest moments. Ms. Larsen has shown that there can be a good outcome to years of treatment.
I applaud the author for bringing her story of a mothers' love in dealing with the issues of a mentally ill child to the public.
Thank you to S.A. Moteni for an awesome review. To check out S.A. Moteni's site and books go to
http://samolteni.blogspot.com/
9/30/2015
My son has finished reading the manuscript and he gives me his blessing to proceed. I am so proud of him for being brave enough to read it. As he read he would text me with questions or comments. Close to the end he wrote, "It's weird reading my quotes because I can remember writing them. Don't mean to scare you though. It's just interesting." I replied that it didn't scare me and was glad he remembered writing the journal entries. I told him that so many of his writings fit perfectly into the book and I worked hard to incorporate them in the right places. My son said, "You did well mom :) Thank you. I love you." Wow as a mother, that was about the best thing he could have ever said to me. I thanked him and said I hoped that reading the book helped him understand why we did the things we did and if it did the writing was worth it. Even if it doesn't go any further than him reading it. He told me that it did help him understand what we did, now more than ever. And he hoped the book does go further and reach other people and help others. He said, "It's a great book!"
Onto the publishing...I will keep you posted.
My son has finished reading the manuscript and he gives me his blessing to proceed. I am so proud of him for being brave enough to read it. As he read he would text me with questions or comments. Close to the end he wrote, "It's weird reading my quotes because I can remember writing them. Don't mean to scare you though. It's just interesting." I replied that it didn't scare me and was glad he remembered writing the journal entries. I told him that so many of his writings fit perfectly into the book and I worked hard to incorporate them in the right places. My son said, "You did well mom :) Thank you. I love you." Wow as a mother, that was about the best thing he could have ever said to me. I thanked him and said I hoped that reading the book helped him understand why we did the things we did and if it did the writing was worth it. Even if it doesn't go any further than him reading it. He told me that it did help him understand what we did, now more than ever. And he hoped the book does go further and reach other people and help others. He said, "It's a great book!"
Onto the publishing...I will keep you posted.
6/11/2014
Synchronicity Moment
I had a weird dream/deja vu/synchronicity moment today. I dreamed last night that I had dirt or something dark under two or three fingernails on my right hand. When I was having coffee this morning, I looked at my right hand and noticed two of my fingernails had something dark under them (deja vu), so I cleaned them. Several hours later I spray painted some wood in our garage a dark brown. The first spray can worked wonderfully. When it ran dry, I grabbed another, but this one oozed out as I sprayed, leaking dark brown paint over three fingers of my right hand. When I came into the house and washed my hands, the paint would not come off with soap and water, so I dug out the nail polish remover and began scrubbing. I managed to get all of the paint off except some dark bits under three fingers of my right hand (synchronicity). WIERD!! What does it mean? Maybe I need to wear gloves next time.
Another book update. I am reminded of the quote from Winston Churchill that I posted on January 30. Wow I can't believe it was that long ago!
"Writing a book is an adventure. To begin with, it is a toy and an amusement; then it becomes a master, and then a tyrant. The last phase is that just as you are about to be reconciled to your servitude, you kill the monster, and fling him out to the public."
The tyrant is here and screaming at me daily. I am working furiously to get this book complete. I have less than twenty pages to edit and after that there are only a few more things to do before I fling it out to the public.
Synchronicity Moment
I had a weird dream/deja vu/synchronicity moment today. I dreamed last night that I had dirt or something dark under two or three fingernails on my right hand. When I was having coffee this morning, I looked at my right hand and noticed two of my fingernails had something dark under them (deja vu), so I cleaned them. Several hours later I spray painted some wood in our garage a dark brown. The first spray can worked wonderfully. When it ran dry, I grabbed another, but this one oozed out as I sprayed, leaking dark brown paint over three fingers of my right hand. When I came into the house and washed my hands, the paint would not come off with soap and water, so I dug out the nail polish remover and began scrubbing. I managed to get all of the paint off except some dark bits under three fingers of my right hand (synchronicity). WIERD!! What does it mean? Maybe I need to wear gloves next time.
Another book update. I am reminded of the quote from Winston Churchill that I posted on January 30. Wow I can't believe it was that long ago!
"Writing a book is an adventure. To begin with, it is a toy and an amusement; then it becomes a master, and then a tyrant. The last phase is that just as you are about to be reconciled to your servitude, you kill the monster, and fling him out to the public."
The tyrant is here and screaming at me daily. I am working furiously to get this book complete. I have less than twenty pages to edit and after that there are only a few more things to do before I fling it out to the public.
A Favorite Quote
Life's not about waiting for the storms to pass . . . It's about learning how to dance in the rain."
-Vivian Greene
So true!
Life's not about waiting for the storms to pass . . . It's about learning how to dance in the rain."
-Vivian Greene
So true!
1/30/2014
"Writing a book is an adventure. To begin with, it is a toy and an amusement; then it becomes a mistress, and then it becomes a master, and then a tyrant. The last phase is that just as you are about to be reconciled to your servitude, you kill the monster, and fling him out to the public."
--Winston Churchill
I am in the master stage, but I feel the tyrant approaching.
"Writing a book is an adventure. To begin with, it is a toy and an amusement; then it becomes a mistress, and then it becomes a master, and then a tyrant. The last phase is that just as you are about to be reconciled to your servitude, you kill the monster, and fling him out to the public."
--Winston Churchill
I am in the master stage, but I feel the tyrant approaching.